Working 1 to 1
We help people who want to improve their mental well-being to integrate a new mind set within 3-4 sessions, so they can get back to enjoying their day-to-day life without:
• Anxiety • Depression • Grief • Worry • Stress • Self-Sabotage • Past Trauma • Low Self-Esteem • Panic Attacks • Phobias • Jealousy • Breakup Pain • Resentments • Background Dissatisfaction • Business Frustrations •
And More...
WHAT NEXT?
Step 1
MAKE CONTACT
Message us first, or just call. Let's connect and explore how we can get you what you want.
There is value in this call even if you decide not to book.
Step 2
THE OPENING CALL
A quick chat to get a little more information and to map out your next steps. We'll also gift 24 hours of free audio, whether you book in or not.
Step 3
1 TO 1 SESSIONS
The average person takes 3-4 sessions to resolve their issue.
Support calls are included in this process in the time between sessions.
Step 4
ON WITH YOUR LIFE
Your life without the problem. You have the changes you wanted.
New perspective, new view, new life.
WHY US?
- We have been working with people for over 18 years with a 96% success rate
- Our testimonials prove that our clients would recommend this service to others
- Our unique style and use of the best in modern change work approaches
- We're here every step to guide you to the changes you want until you succeed
- We aim to make ourselves redundant as soon as possible
- We understand your struggles, we have been there and got the t-shirt
- We exist because know there isn't much quality and effective support out there
- We also offer on-going support in the form of groups and membership if desired
WHAT
- We inform you what would be needed to get the changes you want
- We'll provide an idea of how long it will take, and your next steps
- The opening call is of great value, even if you decide not to book
- We use the latest in mind technologies, and modern techniques
- Everyone is unique, but the average number of sessions required is 3-4
- We use a no-nonsense, direct and occasionally provocative approach
- A little unorthodox, this is not traditional ‘therapy’ or treatment
- You won't need to talk about things in detail, just enough to create change
HOW IT WORKS?
- We correct errors in your current understanding and perspectives
- We alter conditioned reactions to provide you with new possibilities
- We re-programme negative behaviours into new and useful habits
- We'll teach you to develop new and practical ways to be more resourceful
- We help you develop an attitude that is lighter and more resilient
- We move you from using will power to creating changes at the unconscious level
- We won't need you to go into the details of what has happened
- I genuinely feel like I am waking up to my life I was feeling completely lost and fed up of suffering from low self worth which had been a common them all my adult life before I was introduced to Dave by 2 friends. It was clear that I needed to try something different as I'd been in counselling and therapy before and nothing much had changed.
Having read some of Dave's testimonials I was both excited and sceptical. It seemed almost to good to be true and of course my self destructive pattern told me it wouldn't work with me. I was wrong!
After session one and plenty of crying it was clear I was in the presence of someone who had been where I was then. Had been at that point where everything feels unsettling and you find yourself wondering what it's all about. Following the session I was confused but remarkably calm after weeks of high anxiety. What was different about Dave was the ability to contact him in between sessions and check things out. Everytime be quickly understood what was going on and guided me along.
I've now had 4 sessions with the guru and having seen my patterns and habits clearly and recognising how damaging my thoughts were I genuinely feel like it's waking up to my life. Waking up to being kind to myself, trusting my gut, living a life that's fulfilling or at least will be, grateful for the support around me. A life that I've always wanted but was too busy beating myself up to see it.
I no longer feel overly anxious and that feeling only comes from my frustration at not meeting Dave earlier. The straight forward, clear way Dave guides you and the ability to check in anytime has been invaluable. Habits will take time to change but what has already changed has been the clarity on how I view my life and how I don't need validation or someone to like me to feel of value. I'm embracing the change and am determined to continue learning and ensure that my life is full of things I enjoy, free of suffering and full of fun.
Without Dave's help I would not have shifted too far from where I was, that was no longer an option and his support and guidance has been invaluable. Genuinely, I can't thank him enough for freeing me from my self destructive prison.READ MOREREAD LESSDoctors, Psychiatrists, Psychologists + Counsellors, Nothing ever worked I found myself crossing paths with Dave a handful of years ago... And it changed my life. I'd received therapies and help from a number of Doctors, specialists such as Psychiatrists and Psychologists, counsellors and had even tried prescription meds... Nothing ever worked, at best I just became numb. Dave woke me up. There's no better way of saying it but he did. He operates incredibly different to the norm and I can't even explain to you what he does, or how he does it, but I'm so glad that he does. Dave's expertise and amount of experience is rare to find, and he's always first in there with "giving back\". He's been there, he's been through it, he learned some stuff and he shares it with all who crossed his path. It's not easy but it is very worth it. I highly recommend you find out for yourself... You will know straight away.READ MOREREAD LESSBringing you back home to yourself When meeting these guys initially, my situation had built mentally, it had accumulated and was serious, very serious, especially in my “thinking” of it.
Then there’s the good opinion of others, (you can drive yourself mad on that one alone).
It's Good news then that Dave cuts through all of that, bringing you back to what’s is real, bringing you back home to yourself and the ability to look at that same self (and your situation), with new eyes, (or rather the same eyes without the fogged up lenses you’ve been using to date).
He doesn’t sugar coat your predicament, indeed he will tell it to you straight, yet in humour, with a smile.
Through that laughter, you can leave the tears. Or at the very least, make your "problems " just a choice for you rather than the daily habit".READ MOREREAD LESS - I have learnt to break free of my negative mind games Often what we think is causing us pain is just a surface issue. I was struggling with what I thought was 'overwhelm' but after just the 1st session with Dave we quickly discovered it was something quite different. Dave pinpointed the issue and worked with me to change my Mindset overall (not just on one issue) He is easy to talk to but will not enable your pain, which is sometimes a shock to your system when you think all you need is a good cry, tissue and someone to say there there...I have learnt to break free of negative mind games but also that it is ok to have days where we are 'not ok' but to acknowledge those days as physical signs of exhaustion or hormonal surges. I feel more in control, aware of my 'now' and less drawn to the drama.READ MOREREAD LESSDon’t suffer in silence. It was the best thing I ever did. Dave has coached both my teenage son and myself, through the most difficult times of our lives, in both 1:2:1 and group sessions.
His approach is unique and most importantly, it works. Dave has helped us to see things from a very different perspective.
The support we have received and the ongoing support is second to none. I am able to speak with Dave when I really need to, when it really matters & not have to wait weeks/months like most other services.
Not only that, but Dave often checks in with us to ask how we are. He is genuinely interested in our progress. I can’t recommend this service enough. Please, if you are struggling, get in touch with Dave. Reach out. Don’t suffer in silence. It was the best thing I ever did.READ MOREREAD LESSAt long last excited about my life What can I say ?, how can I put into words what Dave has done for me, well I will try, but it wont do him full justice. In the few sessions i have had with Dave he cut straight to the quick and pinned down things for me that i couldn't verbalise in 20 plus years of my life. In his unique style he has shown me that i am ok, and i am at the beginning of something wonderful something I knew all along but couldn't see. Thank you to this mad, lovely man in helping me to see through the correct lenses. Excited about the upcoming workshop and at long last excited about my life xxx thank you Dave xREAD MOREREAD LESS - I’ve got my mojo back! Although I didn’t have major issues, I wasn’t quite right. Little motivation, not as driven as I used to be, etc.
Dave was amazing, made me see things differently. Like it was my thoughts that were stopping me moving forward not what was going on around me.
He made me realise that it’s ok to feel uncomfortable with a thought and that you should do so rather than avoid it and carry it around as baggage.
Thoroughly recommend this service. I only had a few sessions but it’s made the world of deference to me, I’ve got my mojo back!
Cheers Dave👍🏼👍🏼👌🏼👌🏼READ MOREREAD LESSA refreshingly honest manner, and generous with his time We came across Dave though sessions arranged via a charity, and very glad we did so too. A welcome dose of clarity in a noisy, crazy world, Dave helped (and continues to help) me reframe my thinking and toss out unhelpful habits that have dogged me in the past. Particularly useful I think if you need to 'let go' of something that is doing you no service! Dave has a refreshingly honest manner, and is generous with his time and help. If you've tried 'talking' therapies to no avail, or are tired of feeling stuck, I'd 100% recommend a chat with Dave.READ MOREREAD LESSProvided training, coaching and support to many of our employees for years Dave has been providing; training, coaching and support to many of our employees for years. Having benefited from both his training and coaching personally, I can’t recommend the service highly enough. His approach is challenging, but hugely effective, helping people get a better understanding of how they communicate with themselves. I would recommend that anyone who has personal challenges to face, to get in touch with Dave and experience the power of a conversation with him.READ MOREREAD LESS - Change my entire focus and outlook Dave helped me when I was facing an all time low point in my life. His insight, instinct and ability to cut right to the core of a situation makes his interventions concise and timely. Don’t waste time sitting talking to a therapist who just wants to listen, engage with Dave and change your entire focus and outlook to overcome the limitations that hold you back. I have engaged with Dave in person as well as over the phone and text and he is truly remarkable.READ MOREREAD LESSTop fella, straight talker, no fluffy cardie type therapy. What can I say......When your head gets mangled and confuses the hell out of you the wondrous Dave Weller has a unique way of successfully untangling everything. He may take a while to iron it all flat again but after just one session I could feel he’d loosened a few of those stubborn knots. Top fella, straight talker, no fluffy cardie type therapy. He just dives in your head, rummages around and makes it all feel a little clearer ❤️Fran EvansREAD MOREREAD LESSSo empowering, I held myself back so long. Well just did my first genuine Metaphor oh my powerful and empowering. I can feel my mind map moved for the first time and really comfortable with it mentally and physically.
I held back for so long to do this but didn't give up kept having my calls with Dave and got there xxx
Feels like another step forward and I can actually see me and that's a comfort and a weird thing at the same time feels spiritual in some way hard to explain xxxREAD MOREREAD LESS - I finally put down the negative baggage I was carrying I was referred to Dave whilst working for the Local Authority as a Social worker to improve my practice. I've completed his group sessions and worked with him on a 1 to 1 basis. He has helped me on a personal and professional basis. Helping me to become more confident and to put down the negative baggage i was carrying in life. I would recommend him to anyone seeking quick and pain free results.READ MOREREAD LESSFrom insecure, anxious, depressed to wanting to face and embrace life My experience was life changing. It has taken me from a insecure, anxious and depressed person to an individual who is willing and wanting to face and embrace life and enjoy everything it has to offer. I feel the restraints of my emotional thoughts have disappeared and I can now live contently. I am forever grateful. I also made fantastic new friends on my journey by attending courses.READ MOREREAD LESSHe’s not like any councillor I’ve seen before Could not recommend this man enough! I came to speak with Dave when I was going through a rough patch in my life, he helped me deal with my problems myself, helped me solve why I felt how I did and helped me leave the negative feelings behind! He’s not like any councillor I’ve seen before (and I don’t think I’d go anywhere else again)! Thank you Dave for all your help!READ MOREREAD LESS
- I have a much calmer and clearer outlook on life Dave helped me out loads when I was feeling very down, and confused about life, and as it transpired didn't think i was good enough. His work helped me see things far more clearly and now I have a much calmer and clearer outlook on life, and can deal with so much more. It's helped me chart some new interests and directions as well. Cheers DaveREAD MOREREAD LESSHonestly has changed my life Dave has helped me and my teenage son. He was absolutely fantastic and I only needed to see him a few times. Honestly has changed my life. He’s a bit bonkers-but I loved that. Highly recommend him and have done to anyone I know who needs help. He’s worth every penny.READ MOREREAD LESSTo say my life changed for the better is an understatement I have had the privilege of being part of Dave’s training workshops and had individual help. To say my life changed for the better is an understatement and my thanks seem so inadequate. Thank you Dave, what you offer is incredibly special and also life changing.READ MOREREAD LESS
- Honestly has changed my life Dave has helped me and my teenage son. He was absolutely fantastic and I only needed to see him a few times. Honestly has changed my life. He’s a bit bonkers-but I loved that. Highly recommend him and have done to anyone I know who needs help. He’s worth every penny.READ MOREREAD LESS
- Don’t suffer in silence. It was the best thing I ever did. Dave has coached both my teenage son and myself, through the most difficult times of our lives, in both 1:2:1 and group sessions.
His approach is unique and most importantly, it works. Dave has helped us to see things from a very different perspective.
The support we have received and the ongoing support is second to none. I am able to speak with Dave when I really need to, when it really matters & not have to wait weeks/months like most other services.
Not only that, but Dave often checks in with us to ask how we are. He is genuinely interested in our progress. I can’t recommend this service enough. Please, if you are struggling, get in touch with Dave. Reach out. Don’t suffer in silence. It was the best thing I ever did.READ MOREREAD LESS - Change my entire focus and outlook Dave helped me when I was facing an all time low point in my life. His insight, instinct and ability to cut right to the core of a situation makes his interventions concise and timely. Don’t waste time sitting talking to a therapist who just wants to listen, engage with Dave and change your entire focus and outlook to overcome the limitations that hold you back. I have engaged with Dave in person as well as over the phone and text and he is truly remarkable.READ MOREREAD LESS
- Provided training, coaching and support to many of our employees for years Dave has been providing; training, coaching and support to many of our employees for years. Having benefited from both his training and coaching personally, I can’t recommend the service highly enough. His approach is challenging, but hugely effective, helping people get a better understanding of how they communicate with themselves. I would recommend that anyone who has personal challenges to face, to get in touch with Dave and experience the power of a conversation with him.READ MOREREAD LESS
- I’ve got my mojo back! Although I didn’t have major issues, I wasn’t quite right. Little motivation, not as driven as I used to be, etc.
Dave was amazing, made me see things differently. Like it was my thoughts that were stopping me moving forward not what was going on around me.
He made me realise that it’s ok to feel uncomfortable with a thought and that you should do so rather than avoid it and carry it around as baggage.
Thoroughly recommend this service. I only had a few sessions but it’s made the world of deference to me, I’ve got my mojo back!
Cheers Dave👍🏼👍🏼👌🏼👌🏼READ MOREREAD LESS - Bringing you back home to yourself When meeting these guys initially, my situation had built mentally, it had accumulated and was serious, very serious, especially in my “thinking” of it.
Then there’s the good opinion of others, (you can drive yourself mad on that one alone).
It's Good news then that Dave cuts through all of that, bringing you back to what’s is real, bringing you back home to yourself and the ability to look at that same self (and your situation), with new eyes, (or rather the same eyes without the fogged up lenses you’ve been using to date).
He doesn’t sugar coat your predicament, indeed he will tell it to you straight, yet in humour, with a smile.
Through that laughter, you can leave the tears. Or at the very least, make your "problems " just a choice for you rather than the daily habit".READ MOREREAD LESS - I genuinely feel like I am waking up to my life I was feeling completely lost and fed up of suffering from low self worth which had been a common them all my adult life before I was introduced to Dave by 2 friends. It was clear that I needed to try something different as I'd been in counselling and therapy before and nothing much had changed.
Having read some of Dave's testimonials I was both excited and sceptical. It seemed almost to good to be true and of course my self destructive pattern told me it wouldn't work with me. I was wrong!
After session one and plenty of crying it was clear I was in the presence of someone who had been where I was then. Had been at that point where everything feels unsettling and you find yourself wondering what it's all about. Following the session I was confused but remarkably calm after weeks of high anxiety. What was different about Dave was the ability to contact him in between sessions and check things out. Everytime be quickly understood what was going on and guided me along.
I've now had 4 sessions with the guru and having seen my patterns and habits clearly and recognising how damaging my thoughts were I genuinely feel like it's waking up to my life. Waking up to being kind to myself, trusting my gut, living a life that's fulfilling or at least will be, grateful for the support around me. A life that I've always wanted but was too busy beating myself up to see it.
I no longer feel overly anxious and that feeling only comes from my frustration at not meeting Dave earlier. The straight forward, clear way Dave guides you and the ability to check in anytime has been invaluable. Habits will take time to change but what has already changed has been the clarity on how I view my life and how I don't need validation or someone to like me to feel of value. I'm embracing the change and am determined to continue learning and ensure that my life is full of things I enjoy, free of suffering and full of fun.
Without Dave's help I would not have shifted too far from where I was, that was no longer an option and his support and guidance has been invaluable. Genuinely, I can't thank him enough for freeing me from my self destructive prison.READ MOREREAD LESS - I have learnt to break free of my negative mind games Often what we think is causing us pain is just a surface issue. I was struggling with what I thought was 'overwhelm' but after just the 1st session with Dave we quickly discovered it was something quite different. Dave pinpointed the issue and worked with me to change my Mindset overall (not just on one issue) He is easy to talk to but will not enable your pain, which is sometimes a shock to your system when you think all you need is a good cry, tissue and someone to say there there...I have learnt to break free of negative mind games but also that it is ok to have days where we are 'not ok' but to acknowledge those days as physical signs of exhaustion or hormonal surges. I feel more in control, aware of my 'now' and less drawn to the drama.READ MOREREAD LESS
- Life is brighter and so is the future I honestly can't thank dave enough for all his help. It's hard to explain exactly what dave does but he knows what he's doing! I struggled to get my head around his teachings at first, depression and trauma from childhood still had a massive grip on my mind and emotions, but after a few sessions with dave I now feel confident and positive about my future, I no longer feel like my past is ruling my life.
For anyone that is struggling dave can genuinely help, it's a process that has to be trusted and respected. Life is brighter and so is the future.
P.s if it wasn't for dave I would be on all sorts of medication for my depression and anxiety but I'm grateful dave showed me that it didn't have to be that way through observing our thoughts rather than being dragged along by them.
Thank you dave ✌️#legendREAD MOREREAD LESS - From insecure, anxious, depressed to wanting to face and embrace life My experience was life changing. It has taken me from a insecure, anxious and depressed person to an individual who is willing and wanting to face and embrace life and enjoy everything it has to offer. I feel the restraints of my emotional thoughts have disappeared and I can now live contently. I am forever grateful. I also made fantastic new friends on my journey by attending courses.READ MOREREAD LESS
- At long last excited about my life What can I say ?, how can I put into words what Dave has done for me, well I will try, but it wont do him full justice. In the few sessions i have had with Dave he cut straight to the quick and pinned down things for me that i couldn't verbalise in 20 plus years of my life. In his unique style he has shown me that i am ok, and i am at the beginning of something wonderful something I knew all along but couldn't see. Thank you to this mad, lovely man in helping me to see through the correct lenses. Excited about the upcoming workshop and at long last excited about my life xxx thank you Dave xREAD MOREREAD LESS
- Doctors, Psychiatrists, Psychologists + Counsellors, Nothing ever worked I found myself crossing paths with Dave a handful of years ago... And it changed my life. I'd received therapies and help from a number of Doctors, specialists such as Psychiatrists and Psychologists, counsellors and had even tried prescription meds... Nothing ever worked, at best I just became numb. Dave woke me up. There's no better way of saying it but he did. He operates incredibly different to the norm and I can't even explain to you what he does, or how he does it, but I'm so glad that he does. Dave's expertise and amount of experience is rare to find, and he's always first in there with "giving back\". He's been there, he's been through it, he learned some stuff and he shares it with all who crossed his path. It's not easy but it is very worth it. I highly recommend you find out for yourself... You will know straight away.READ MOREREAD LESS
- To say my life changed for the better is an understatement I have had the privilege of being part of Dave’s training workshops and had individual help. To say my life changed for the better is an understatement and my thanks seem so inadequate. Thank you Dave, what you offer is incredibly special and also life changing.READ MOREREAD LESS
- I finally put down the negative baggage I was carrying I was referred to Dave whilst working for the Local Authority as a Social worker to improve my practice. I've completed his group sessions and worked with him on a 1 to 1 basis. He has helped me on a personal and professional basis. Helping me to become more confident and to put down the negative baggage i was carrying in life. I would recommend him to anyone seeking quick and pain free results.READ MOREREAD LESS
- He’s not like any councillor I’ve seen before Could not recommend this man enough! I came to speak with Dave when I was going through a rough patch in my life, he helped me deal with my problems myself, helped me solve why I felt how I did and helped me leave the negative feelings behind! He’s not like any councillor I’ve seen before (and I don’t think I’d go anywhere else again)! Thank you Dave for all your help!READ MOREREAD LESS
- A refreshingly honest manner, and generous with his time We came across Dave though sessions arranged via a charity, and very glad we did so too. A welcome dose of clarity in a noisy, crazy world, Dave helped (and continues to help) me reframe my thinking and toss out unhelpful habits that have dogged me in the past. Particularly useful I think if you need to 'let go' of something that is doing you no service! Dave has a refreshingly honest manner, and is generous with his time and help. If you've tried 'talking' therapies to no avail, or are tired of feeling stuck, I'd 100% recommend a chat with Dave.READ MOREREAD LESS
- So empowering, I held myself back so long. Well just did my first genuine Metaphor oh my powerful and empowering. I can feel my mind map moved for the first time and really comfortable with it mentally and physically.
I held back for so long to do this but didn't give up kept having my calls with Dave and got there xxx
Feels like another step forward and I can actually see me and that's a comfort and a weird thing at the same time feels spiritual in some way hard to explain xxxREAD MOREREAD LESS
What areas of life do you need to get clarity on?
Personal Issues
Anxiety
Depression
Body Issues
Worry / Stress
Lack of Confidence
Phobias & Fears
Compulsive Behaviours (OCD)
Self-Sabotage
Past Trauma
Loneliness
Eating Disorders
Fear of Conflict
Low Self-Esteem
Assertiveness
Addiction Patterns
Panic Attacks
Obsessive Thinking
Grief / Loss
Phobias / Fears
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
Bereavement
Fear of Failure / Success
Social Anxiety
Self-Harm
Bullying
Inability to Say "No"
Relationships
GENERAL Relationships:
- Understand and protect yourself from other people's negative intentions and language,
remain calm and choose a different response to difficult people. - Communicate with your children to teach them independence and resourcefulness, and still keep the ability to place understood boundaries.
- Deal with parents without them making you feel like you're a child again.
- Deal with authority in the working environment.
- Improve your flexibility of behaviour; stop getting stuck in habitual communication patterns.
- Change your attitude to life - this is a Biggy: when we are able to change our outlook, we have more possibilities to play with and more choice.
- Get back your playfulness and dump the seriousness that most communication involves.
- Deepen your relationship with friends and family or heal old wounds that keep you apart.
ROMANTIC Relationships:
- Deal with the suffering of a break up.
- Get the spark back in your relationship.
- Get the other side of resentment and frustration.
- Smooth out a break up for minimum effect on the children.
- Learn how to move on effectively.
- Avoid carrying your past relationship into your new one.
- Resolve issues with jealousy.
- Avoid feeling like you lose yourself in a relationship and discover the cause.
- Put a halt to being attracted to or attracting the wrong person.
- Discover what's really going on when people blow up over the small stuff.
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